Control

When you think you can control things around you, over and over again, you will be proven wrong. you can't control the grey hairs that grow on your head. You can't control the cholesterol that is happily sticking to your blood veins. So conclusion, you can't control your body mechanics. You can't control the weather. You can't control the road traffic. So conclusion, you can't control what nature offers you. And, what matters most, You can't control how much people love you..If there is such tool or equipment to measure the love you receive from people, I am sure the tool will be the most attractive gift during any festive season

That it hits me. What we can control ? Nothing much I guess. The only thing we can control is what we give to people. Love, money, smile, happiness, good vibes, anger, hate, tears, good words, bad words, curses, bad wishes, good prayers...so conclusion, what we can control is what within ourselves.

In return, we cannot control what we will receive from others once we control ourselves. At this moment, I do have regrets in my life. I wish I can turn back time and take back all the anger I have in the past. But I can't. All I wish now is to exercise good control of my anger. Which is difficult. I wish I can throw this anger to the sea and let the sea swallows it.

Although we know that we can control our emotions,sometimes we are overcome by them. We succumb to the situation. We can't fight the tears that come running down the cheeks. But then, once the tears are all dried up, we would be feeling much better as if the tears have wipe out all the pain we have in our hearts.

I have not met anyone who is happy 100% of his life. For people whom we thought have everything, they are still sad. They feel lonely. When I think of MJ, he has everything, fame, money, etc...but he could not sleep. So conclusion, everyone has his own problem.

I learnt from a book. A problem is something that has a solution. If the problem has no solution, then it is not a problem. So why you need to think about a problem which does not have a solution? So why we need to control something that is not within our control ? Yeah, we as humans just love challenge...keep on adding problems to our basket. The funny thing is, the basket magically growns as the problems grows.

So I am telling myself now. S U R R E N D E R.....D O N O T T R Y T O C O N T R O L what Y O U C A N T C O N T R O L..

Just enjoy the free oxygen, smell the lilies, smile at people, and surrender yourself to what God will offer you. Once you surrender, you will be surprise of what lies ahead of you....