True happiness

When you love someone, you will feel that the world belongs to you. You will wake up with happiness. The whole world is full with laughters. You cant wait to hear his voice over the phone. You keep looking at the phone, just waiting for his sms. For every opportunity you have, you will mention his name. Your friends, relatives, family will definitely know how much you adore him. As time goes by, over a period of time, you need to keep the feeling going. The question is, how to maintain the level always ? The answer is it will fade slowly. However, this passion will be replaced with other feelings. I truly believe a succesful relationship must have three pillars. Honesty, fidelity and responsibility.


Missing any of this pillars, the relationship will be doomed. Some people can live with it. Many of us do not. Some of us decide to live with a partner that only provides them economic securities only. There isnt any right or wrong way of living. Nobody forces us to make any decision.


For me, true Happiness is actually what we decide to create. That is the only way. If we expect other people to make us happy, we may be dissappointed. So lets create that world in our hearts. The world where we are the driver of our own happiness. We may get hurt along the way. We may face challenges throughout our journey. But we can go to our world in our hearts to get serenity and the purpose of our being. Which is, to be happy with ourselves.